Amerisogyny
Welcome to Amerisogyny with Hannah Blue! Amerisogyny takes listeners around the world, exposing links in mental health on topics on such as dating, crime, domestic violence and more! Mental health affects everyone—everywhere in the world. Got your tickets ready? Let’s fly! ; )
Episodes
Sunday Feb 26, 2023
Sunday Feb 26, 2023
Cyberbullying and harmful social media trends are responsible for countless numbers of child and adolescent deaths. Children and teens who are of the the LGBTQIA+ community and children with developmental delays (autism) are at a greater risk of cyberbullying and ostracism from peers. Popular social media sites such as Snapchat and TikTok have been used to terrorize innocent victims literally to their deaths.
Research demonstrates the rates of suicide among the youth have spiked since the beginning of the Covid 19 pandemic. These alleged "social" media sites do not foster harmonious, personable interactions. Instead, they do just the opposite. Recently, celebrities Pink and Selena Gomez have come under fire for allegedly "shading" other celebrities, despite denials by both women. It seems no one is safe from the perils of evil bullies who wish to inflict harm on others. What is able to be done to stop children from being cyberbullied and engaging in dangerous trends? In this episode, I provide valuable statistics on bullying/cyberbullying along with solutions on what you can do to combat the toxicity of social media.
Citations:
SIB (Self Injurious Behavior) Eyeshadow Palette, www.21bluelash.net
'Pink Has A Long History Of Belittling Women Because She's "Not Like Other Girls" And People Are Now Calling Her Out For It.' Stephanie Soteriou 2/24/2023
'Christina Aguilera Has No Issues With Pink...Despite Getting Shaded.' TMZ 2/25/2023
Bullying, Cyberbullying, & Suicide Statistics https://www.meganmeierfoundation.org/statistics
'The family of a teen who died by suicide after being outed by cyberbullies is demanding justice.' AJ Willingham, CNN 9/30/2019
'A 15-year-old boy died by suicide after relentless cyberbullying, and his parents say the Latin School could have done more to stop it.' Megan Hickey, CBS Chicago 4/25/2022
‘It’s killing our babies’: 12-year old dies in TikTok challenge.' Molly Walsh, cleveland.com
'Parents Sue TikTok, Saying Children Died After Viewing ‘Blackout Challenge.’ Michael Levenson and April Rubin 7/6/2022
'TikTok’s ‘blackout’ challenge linked to deaths of 20 children in 18 months, report says.' Alisha Rahaman Sarkar 12/1/2022
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Friday Feb 24, 2023
Friday Feb 24, 2023
Social media is an illusion that deceives people into believing the people they watch are living their best lives. When in reality, they privately suffer behind closed doors. Its impossible to remain on social media around the clock. It is also harmful when some attempt to try, for they fall down a rabbit hole they often do not want leave. It is very easy to get caught up in the spells of social media and forget our own lives.
People are deceived into believing their lives are less important and not as exciting as their favorite social media influencers and celebrities. However, if life is so wonderful for these people, why are they committing suicide? The rates of suicide have increased in the West and the East. People are shocked when people they never thought would end their lives wind up dead. What drives them over the edge? In four of the stories, mental health was the ultimate factor.
Clearly money and fame do not add quality or value to one's life. If they did, we'd see a significant decrease in the rates of suicide. And still, some people actually believe being popular and affluent are the keys to happiness. They are not. Take a journey with me as I discuss five individuals who seemed to be living charmed lives in the public eye--yet suffered in private. Ultimately, at least four out of the five certainly ended their lives. In this episode, we will uncover the untruths about social media and celebrity life. We will also discuss how to combat suicidal behavior.
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Thursday Feb 23, 2023
Episode 5: Overcoming Secret Sabotage: Winning Against 'Crabs in a Barrel' Syndrome
Thursday Feb 23, 2023
Thursday Feb 23, 2023
Are you aware of how many people secretly want to see you fail? While its true you may have friends and family who genuinely want to see you succeed, unfortunately, not everyone has your best interest at heart. "Crabs in a Barrel" is a metaphor that describes how people within a specific culture or community, secretly harbor resentment for familiar individuals attempting to enrich their lives by pursuing avenues of opportunity and successful ventures.
Even it it means they may miss out on reaping benefits once you've 'made it', individuals who know you may feel you are not supposed to surpass them--even if they're doing nothing to advance themselves. By withholding or withdrawing support from your new endeavors, they mistakenly believe this will thwart your chances for advancement. It doesn't. In this episode, I show you how to recognize 'frenemies' (enemies disguised as friends) and how to deal with them accordingly.
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Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Episode 3: Escape the Past: Embrace New Love with Self-Esteem & Awareness
Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Breaking up from a toxic relationship is one of the most rewarding journeys in life. It takes bravery, commitment and consistency. Giving up on a dead end relationship you invested time and energy into is difficult. However, remaining in an abusive union where someone makes you feel insignificant and undesired is worse. It is unhealthy and not beneficial for optimum mental health and overall well being. True healing takes commitment and a lot of hard work but the good news is, it IS possible!
There are far too many good people in the world who are whole, stable and ready to love you just as you are. You must believe you are worthy to receive and give love in a stable and supportive relationship that brings out the best in you--not the worst. Before you give up on healing, love, and yourself, I implore you to listen to this episode. You may discover things about yourself you never knew. The journey to rediscovering a brand new you is worth it! The first step is easy. Simply press 'play!' ; )
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Tuesday Feb 21, 2023
Tuesday Feb 21, 2023
Have you noticed misogyny has no native language, religion or culture? Misogyny is one of the universal vices that plague women in every country. The rates of violence committed against women around the world is absolutely terrifying. Misogyny is at times adopted and modified by women. However, it is mostly perpetuated by men. Misogyny existed in ancient times--long before the birth of Christ.
The origin of deep, intrinsic hatred of women is as mysterious as the whereabouts of Queen Nefertiti's burial chamber. What is it about women that turns some men into violent rapists and murderers? Where did the disconnect between harmonious relationships between men and women begin? Was there a time in history where men did not seek to dominate and control women? In this episode, I shed light on stories of females of diverse ages and cultures, from around the world who are victims of physical and sexual violence. Join me in deciphering why misogyny exists and if any solutions may be utilized to eradicate it from every society...forever.
Citations
Milwaukee judge who blocked DNA evidence in Ee Lee homicide case in Washington Park gives prosecutors second chance Sarah Volpenhein and Sophie Carson
Boys, 15 and 17, filmed themselves raping and killing woman, 36, who was relaxing in park: By Jimmy McCloskey
Man gets prison after slashing girlfriend while she sat beside their sick baby in Queens: By Aliza Chasan
Delivery driver indicted for murder of 7-year-old Athena Strand in Texas: By Rebekah Riess and Susannah Cullinane
Japan Will No Longer Have The Developed World’s Lowest Age of Consent: By Hanako Montgomery
Man who killed his mom in 2002 arrested in NYC attack on 65-year-old Asian woman: By Wilson Wong
Three men WILL be executed over gang-rape and murder of student, 23, on Delhi bus: By Lucy Clarke-Billings
China charges dozens over brutal attack on women in restaurant: By Nectar Gan, CNN
Sulli, South Korean K-Pop Star and Actress, Is Found Dead: By Jacey Fortin
South Korean man arrested for three-hour beating of Vietnamese wife By Nguyen Quy
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Tuesday Feb 21, 2023
Episode 2: Solitary by Choice: The Impact of Single Living on Global Populations
Tuesday Feb 21, 2023
Tuesday Feb 21, 2023
Studies have shown men have access to fewer female dating partners due to women adopting higher dating standards. Could this be a factor in why key regions of the world are experiencing massive declines in population? What are the common denominators that have caused women (and some men) to shun dating candidates they perceive as non viable romantic partners?
Women in South Korea are avoiding relationships due to a harsh employment culture and strenuous marriage duties while women in China and Japan are steadily transitioning out of the childbearing stage into advanced age. Japan's Prime Minister, Fumio Kishida says “Our nation is on the cusp of whether it can maintain its societal functions.” For Japan, time is of the essence to correct the country's declining birth rate. Things have become very bleak for the "world's oldest society."
Citation: ‘Now or never’: Kishida says Japan has to act on population drop.' Aljazeera 1/23/2023
Til death do I stay single: South Korea's #NoMarriage women 6/12/2019
China's birthrate declines for first time in decades. It could have global impact. Kim Hjelmgaard, USA TODAY 1/17/2023
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Monday Feb 20, 2023
Monday Feb 20, 2023
What is gaslighting? Gaslighting is abusive behavior which manipulates a victim into questioning their own sanity or intellect. Anyone, regardless of race, social class, or gender can be targets of gaslighting. This episodes highlights the detrimental toll gaslighting takes on one's self esteem and overall sense of self worth in a romantic relationship.
Gaslighting is an effective tactic abusers use to manipulate and control their partners. The emotional turmoil the victim experiences after the relationship ends can be lifelong if not confronted and rectified with consistent love and support from family, friends and loved ones. In addition to providing valuable insight into how it feels to be on the receiving end of a controlling, abusive partner, it is imperative to know how to overcome a verbally abusive relationship and move on to a healthy union filled with love, honor and peace of mind.
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